You Won’t Ever Get Over It

Mike Salton Sea for the last time, 2021. iphone 12 Pro iColorama app

I’ve never been the same since my brother died. There is a melancholy inside me that never goes away. I’m 50 percent happy and 50 percent sad at any given moment. And the only advice I can give people for when you lose someone like that is…you won’t ever get over it. And the more you know that and embrace it, the better off you are.

— Billy Bob Thornton

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