When determining the size or complexity of a new habit ask yourself,

“What can I stick to—even on my worst day?”

Start there.

Master the art of showing up.

Then advance.

— James Clear

• Stop Looking For Someone To Complete Your Life
  Your death is more certain than your wedding day. Stop looking for someone to complete your life.… Read more: Stop Looking For Someone To Complete Your Life
• When You Rise, Kiss The Tombstone of Your Past
  When you rise, kiss the tombstone of your past and step barefoot into the garden of the… Read more: When You Rise, Kiss The Tombstone of Your Past
• Then You Must Know About Grief
  Tell it this way: depression is the 30cm nail driving into the walls. If  you ever read… Read more: Then You Must Know About Grief
• So I Dated Unsuitable Men
  So I went back to an old lover To get over you. But it turned outHe didn’t… Read more: So I Dated Unsuitable Men
• My Relationship To Reality Is Already Fraught
  My relationship to reality is already fraught. The hours I give to volcano podcasts and vampire T.V.… Read more: My Relationship To Reality Is Already Fraught
• Stitch Close The Open Wound
  Like being shredded from the inside outBroken fragments of what wasPeely discards of what ifsA few but… Read more: Stitch Close The Open Wound
• Do It Now
  One day you will wake up and there won’t be any more time to do the things… Read more: Do It Now
• Careless Children Disappear With Each UFO
  The girl from my class kept a scrapbook of ghost stories: I learnt that vampires in Qing… Read more: Careless Children Disappear With Each UFO
• I Loved Someone Once Who Took Me Outside Language
  I loved someone once who took me outside language. Have you ever had that? It’s a drug.… Read more: I Loved Someone Once Who Took Me Outside Language
• I’m Not A Poet
  I get up every day at threeAnd write a bit of poetry.It’s not too good.It’s pretty bad.When… Read more: I’m Not A Poet
• I Had This Bright Idea
  I had this bright idea That if we got togetherOnce a month A long weekend For wild… Read more: I Had This Bright Idea
• Love Catches Us, Ravages And Remakes Us
  Go ahead, Lord, break our harp.We have thousands upon thousands of harps.  We’ve fallen into Love’s arms. We’re torn… Read more: Love Catches Us, Ravages And Remakes Us